1. Start Saving for Retirement Now, Not Later
2. Start Taking Care of Your Health Now, Not Later
3. Don’t Spend Time with People Who Don’t Treat You Well
Choose who we hang out with. Choose what we do.
“Stay away from miserable people… they will consume you, drain you.” (Gabriella, 43)
As one reader wisely said, “Selfishness and self-interest are two different things. Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind.”
“Don’t settle for mediocre friends, jobs, love, relationships and life.” (Sean, 43)
“Setting healthy boundaries is one of the most loving things you can do for yourself or another person.” (Kristen, 43)
4. Be Good to the People You Care About
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“In a word: focus. You can simply get more done in life if you focus on one thing and do it really well. Focus more.” (Ericson, 49)
6. Don’t Be Afraid of Taking Risks, You Can Still Change
7. You Must Continue to Grow and Develop Yourself
8. Nobody (Still) Knows What They’re Doing, Get Used to It
stop obsessing about what is happening right now because it will change anyway, and get over the control issue about your life’s direction.
9. Invest in Your Family; It’s Worth It
Children are the most fulfilling, challenging, and exhausting endeavor anyone can ever undertake. Ever.” (Rich, 44)
10. Be better to ourselves. Be kind to yourself, respect yourself
“Be a little selfish and do something for yourself every day, something different once a month and something spectacular every year.” (Nancy, 60)
“When I turned forty my father told me that I’d enjoy my forties because in your twenties you think you know what’s going on, in your thirties you realize you probably don’t, and in your forties you can relax and just accept things. I’m 58 and he was right.”
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